Modifications and New Year

The last few months have been less intense. Our lives with work and the children make it sometimes difficult to embed as much of the FLM lifestyle as my sub hub and I like and enjoy. I get tired and busy, so I don't enforce the rules so much and he gets lax and grows moody. We decided, however, to start a weekend ritual of punishment sessions to keep him in line more--by me keeping him more accountable. When it comes down to it, he is here to serve me and make my life easier.

Revision of Chores: The Golden Dozen

1. Wash, dry, fold, iron/steam most of the laundry;

2. Wash dishes daily;
3. Empty dishwasher daily;
4. Plan and prepare dinners (whenever possible based on family schedule), including doing the grocery shopping;
5. Tidy kitchen daily;
6. Make Queen's bed every morning;
7. Turn down Queen's bed (turn on mattress bad as conditions require) along with ice water with lemon at 7:30 p.m. sharp;
8. Provide Queen with a pedicure every weekend;
9. Have Queen's work outfit ironed/steamed and ready for her to wear each morning, including polished shoes and jewelry (assuming she picks out the night before);
10. Pack the children's lunches;
11. Change the Queen's bed sheets every weekend;
12. Perform additional chores/duties as assigned by Queen.

As it stands, our standard rules are:

1. Unless granted special permission from Queen, Knight shall not enter Queen's bed before her;         

2. Until Queen says otherwise (perhaps upon real substantive weight loss and fitness progress by Knight), Knight will stay within in eating allowance provided;
3. In addition to #2, Knight will provide Queen with a daily log/update of diet and exercise;
4. Knight shall provide Queen with an appropriate monthly tribute/gift;

5. Knight shall keep his cock, balls and pubic area hair free. Knight shall be permitted a minimum of 45 minutes out of his device every weekend for grooming and hygiene. This shall be under the supervision of Queen.
6. Knight shall put his work appointments and other obligations (along with the children's activities that he is aware of) on the family calendar as soon as possible;
7. Queen shall not be required to seek approval from Knight for activities she wishes to engage in She may choose to review the family calendar to look for scheduling conflicts, but she is free to do what she wishes, when she wishes, and in the manner that she wishes, without questions from Knight.8. Queen shall not be required to seek approval from Knight for the expenditure of funds. She may spend money to the extent and manner that she thinks is appropriate, without questions from Knight.
9. Treat Queen with the highest degree of respect at all times, even when Knight may not happy with what the situation.

10. Service queen, making her life as easy as possible. Do without her needing to ask. 

My knight will be expected to follow the above outlined lists. Punishment sessions happen weekly regardless of implementation as a reminder. Sessions will be more severe, however, if knight shows lax behavior or any signs of disrespect. Methods of dominance include some of the following: denial, chastity, ruined orgasms, milking, creampie/snowball consumption, ass fucking sissy panties, caning and spanking, humiliation, etc. Rewards will include release. A list of major rewards will be decided on in collaboration, including release in my pussy for special occasions. 

Chastity Makes Me Hot

It has been several weeks since I have had my hubby in chastity. It seems he gets too lax when he's out of his cage. His chores don't get done promptly; he fails to service and worship me on a level that I deserve, and his attitude/tone gets out of submissive mode (especially when he's tired or stressed). He doesn't get to cum in my pussy much anymore; I don't much care for the mess. However, he has been ordered to clean up after his release. He has a birthday coming up and my gift promised to him was release in both my ass and my pussy, but this was when he was servicing me better. I am curious to see how his gifts play out for him. After being locked back up last night, I had the best set of orgasms that I have ever had. With a mix of my favorite vibrator, amazing oral of my entire pussy/ass area, and some finger play, I pulsated and moaned for the longest I can remember. Afterward, I licked his dick through his metal cage; he was bulging out through the slots. Over the past two days, my kitchen has been cleaned and the laundry is almost caught up. He has been back to kissing my feet and ass. I am thinking he really wants to please me (motivated by his birthday wish(es). We plan to revise our rules tonight to better help us embed FLR more in our marriage. My belief is that a good submissive will do everything he can to make my life easier without my needing to ask. He can be very in-tune with this, especially when to take control of his (I mean my) cock.

What to do...

So I just came off of my period, and I have been extremely horny. We were too busy for period sex. My hub who has been lax on his chores with a shoulder injury has been very active with work this weekend. I am not sure if this is to make sure there is lack of a punishment session and more of a reward session or what. However, I plan to make sure the kids are in bed early, so I can get the pussy worshiping and pampering I deserve, for it is LONG overdue. I think we will start with a nice pedicure, foot massage (I did do my long run this weekend), body rubdown, pussy service, cock teasing, a few Os for me, and I will see where the night takes us. He can't cum in my pussy until his birthday (a little more than a month away), but if he does well, I plan to give him release since my yard looks lovely, dinner will be prepared, and my laundry is slowly getting caught up. His hard work may pay off for him indeed.

My Caging Goes Semi-Public.

About six weeks ago, my Queen and I went for our first ever Brazilian waxing at a salon in A2. Things were a little uncomfortable for me….aside from getting my pubic hairs ripped out, I was splayed out on a table being worked on by a female technician. In the end things went well. The technician was very cool about things and did a great job and I was happy with the job she did. After the appointment, my Queen and I made our next appointment for 4-5 weeks out, after that, I didn’t really give it much thought until a few days before our next appointment. It was then that my Queen started dropping hints that she may not unlock me from my chastity device for the appointment. During the next couple of days, I asked Queen if she was sure that this was a good move…going more public, and she was steadfast that I was going to be locked up for the appointment. When the appointment day came, I was both nervous and excited about how the people at the salon would react and what potential ramifications, if any, would be.

We entered the salon and went to the lounge area. Queen told the receptionist/office manager that she needed to speak with my technician. Queen went back to the technician’s room and Queen told her that I was locked in a chastity device and asked if it would be a problem. According to my Queen, the technician was both surprised and naïve as to what this meant. Don’t get me wrong, the technician is a 30ish attractive female with tattoos and a few piercing and I suspect she is pretty open minded. She just didn’t have any prior knowledge or experience in FemDom or male chastity. The technician told my Queen that it wasn’t a problem at all.

After that, I was taken back to the room and I undressed and lay down on the table. The technician came in and started to go to work. She was hesitant to bring it up at first, but I think her curiosity got the best of her and she had many questions about the device and my relationship with my Queen. Although it is true that there was an element of humiliation with this experience, it was also quite liberating as it was the first time someone other than my Queen had seen me in my cage or that I had discussed my cage or our FemDom relationship with anyone else face to face. It was clear that the technician was very interested in it and perhaps even a little excited by the situation.  Unfortunately, the device I was wearing was a new one and we didn’t have the sizing down quite right yet (that has been fixed now). As a result, as the technician was moving me around I slipped out and one of my testicals was squeezed in the device like a vice. The technician excused herself while I unlocked the device with the emergency key and got out. She came back in and finished the job, both Brazilian and back. I told the technician that I may be in trouble for slipping out. It finally started to connect that my Queen was fully in charge and that she had absolute control. The technician and I walked out into the reception area together where my Queen was waiting as she had just finished her own waxing. I approached her and told her what had happened. She asked the technician if I had purposely tried to get out and the technician confirmed that I had not. All in all, I think it was a thoroughly enjoyable outing for all involved. There is also little doubt in my mind that everyone at that salon now knows that I am locked in chastity and am a submissive husband. I am hoping that someday at an appointment there my Queen will have a reason to firmly discipline me….perhaps even spanking me in front of the salon crew.

All Locked Up!

Third time must be a charm! It took us a while, but I think the new Jailbird device finally fits. Poor little thing all locked up! This is going be a lot of fun (evil grin).

Going a Little Public

Went for our wax appointment a week ago--waxing our "private" play areas. This time I made my subhub wear his cage. I told him a couple days prior that I would not be letting him out for his appointment. He asked me several times throughout the last couple days if I really was going through with it.

I did.

I asked to speak to his tech prior. She had no clue about male chastity or what it meant to be locked up. She got quite the education. I let her know that is she was freaked out, that I would unlock him, but she seemed OK and was very open. It wasn't until she was talking to my hub during the appointment that she realized that I had control of the key. She also learned that I am in charge and make the decisions. I think her boyfriend might be in for a little treat!

Anyway, I love being smooth. I love to touch and rub my pussy and want him to do the same. I demanded a PIV O--my favorite way; it was a great O. I then got on him and teased for a while. While riding him, I told him how his tiny little cock was just swimming around in me and that I couldn't feel him and that I was thinking about other huge cocks satisfying me. Obviously this excited him too much; he came without permission. I could tell him was close.

I jumped off and grabbed his cock as it started to explode with his cum. I squeezed the top, not allowing the rest to exit. I made him clean himself and me (not digesting it this time). I did tell him that he is in for quite the punish session; however, I was too tired to deal with his release without permission. I had a great punishment session that weekend; that's another post! I will order him to have his version of his waxing debut by Monday morning.

Getting back to where we were and some “reeducation.”

My Queen and I have been on the FLR journey since this Spring. We have had some bumps along the way, but both of us were/are thoroughly enjoying it. In late June we took a month-long family vacation combined with a business trip of mine.  Immediately following this, we had a house guest that was not well known to us for another six weeks. As a result, although we continued FLR and my Queen’s domination of me during this period, it was very difficult to engage in our regular routines given the circumstances. Moreover, we were not yet at a place in out D/s relationship where either of us (most importantly my Queen), was comfortable exhibiting our roles in front of others (this has changed which I will detail in a separate post). The good news is that I am back to being locked up on a daily basis, doing chores and servicing to my Queen. Most importantly, my Queen has returned, exercising her dominance and demanding that I do my chores and service to her. I think, like me, she is enjoying our D/s relationship more than ever and is starting to hit her stride.